Travis Barker shares his ‘strict, but not strict’ dating rules for daughter Alabama

The 18-year-old posed a series of hypothetical questions to her dad, including, “What are you going to do if I sneak out, and you find out the next day?”

Travis Barker has some rules for his daughter when it comes to dating.

In a sweet TikTok video, Alabama Barker asked her “strict but not strict dad” some hypothetical parenting questions, starting with inquiring if he considers himself strict.

Travis Barker thought for a second, sitting beside his daughter, and responded, “No.”

She then asked what he’d do if he found out she snuck out of the house.

“I’m going to tell you how dangerous it is and maybe try to put you on restriction,” he said with a laugh, as his daughter explained to the camera, “I’m not even kidding you, restriction was his thing.”

The 18-year-old then asked her dad what he’d do if she went out with a boy and “stopped answering” her father.

“I would come to your location, and I would find you,” he said as Alabama Barker laughed.

After Alabama Barker asked her dad if she’s allowed to have “guy friends” over, he told her, “when I’m home.” But as to whether or not she’s allowed to close her door with a boy in the room, Travis Barker said, “not without me coming in to check on you.”

He drew the line, though, at letting her drive to a boy’s house alone at night.

As for her non-dating questions, Travis Barker told his daughter that should her car get towed, she’d have to find out where it’s located and pay the fine. And when it came to her school work, if she were to start skipping classes, the Blink-182 drummer said he would “start doing school” with her.

Travis Barker and Kourtney Kardashian Barker, the new parents of son Rocky, each have three children from previous relationships.

Here’s everything you need to know about the couple’s blended family.

Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker welcome 1st child

Kourtney Kardashian Barker and Travis Barker welcomed their first child together in November 2023. Barker said on an Oct. 30 episode of the “One Life One Chance” podcast that they planned to use the name Rocky Thirteen.

The two shared the first photos of their son Dec. 22 on Instagram. In the pics, the parents cradle their newborn.

The “Kardashians” star announced she and the Blink-182 drummer were expecting on June 16 when she held up a sign that read, “Travis I’m pregnant,” at a Blink-182 concert.

The sweet moment paid homage to a scene from the band’s 1999 music video for the song “All The Small Things.” Days later, the couple, who got married in May 2022, announced that they’re expecting a baby boy.

But their journey to parenthood together saw its share of difficulties.

On Sept. 6, Kardashian Barker revealed that she was forced to undergo an “urgent fetal surgery” in order to save her baby’s life.

The reality TV star shared the frightening news on Instagram, where she thanked her husband along with her mom, Kris Jenner, and the medical team who helped save her baby’s life.

“As someone who has had three really easy pregnancies in the past, I wasn’t prepared for the fear of rushing into urgent fetal surgery,” she wrote. “I don’t think anyone who hasn’t been through a similar situation can begin to understand that feeling of fear. I have a whole new understanding and respect for the mamas who have had to fight for their babies while pregnant.”

She concluded her post, “Praise be to God. Walking out of the hospital with my baby boy in my tummy and safe was the truest blessing.”

Then in October, Kardashian Barker clapped back at critics who say she’s too old to have a baby during an interview with Vanity Fair Italia.

The Poosh founder told the magazine she doesn’t listen to comments from anyone questioning her desire to welcome a baby in her 40s.

“Those comments don’t affect me. I just say: how could you question God’s plan? Because that’s how I see this pregnancy, which came when both Travis and I weren’t even thinking about it anymore and a year after we stopped IVF,” the reality star said, according to a post on Vanity Fair Italia’s official Instagram page.

Prior to the pregnancy news, Kardashian Barker had shared candid updates about the difficulties of her IVF journey.

In the Season Three premiere of “The Kardashians,” the reality star revealed that she was “officially done with IVF,” saying she and Travis Barker had decided to see “what God has in store for us” instead.

Kourtney Kardashian Barker’s kids

Mason Disick

Mason Disick is the eldest of three children Kardashian Barker shares with her ex-boyfriend Scott Disick. The couple broke up in 2015.

The former couple welcomed their son in December 2009 and the proud parents have shared a plethora of photos and videos of their son on social media over the years.

In 2016, Kardashian Barker posted a video of Mason, then 6, re-creating a viral YouTube video as he practiced his British accent. Flash forward a few years, and the mother of three spoke publicly about why she didn’t want her 10-year-old son to have his own social media accounts just yet.

“He started an Instagram yesterday and didn’t ask us,” she said during a 2020 Instagram Live. “I did delete it because Scott and I just felt like … he’s 10!”

In 2021, Mason proved that he has savvy social media skills when he texted his aunt, Kim Kardashian, to express his concerns about her daughter North going live on TikTok without asking her first.

“I don’t want to disrespect North but I don’t think she should do the lives unless someone is with her because people are always screen recording and she might tell information that isn’t correct and stuff like that, that she will regret,” Mason wrote in a text. “I did the exact same thing as she did. I would do the lives and now I regret saying one of the things that I said. Just in case for safety.”

Mason is now 13 and celebrated his bar mitzvah in 2022. His aunt, Khloé Kardashian, took to Instagram to congratulate her nephew, sharing several photos with some of her nieces from the party.

Mason shares a birthday with his younger brother Reign, and their mom has posted several sweet birthday tributes to honor both of her boys on their special day over the years.

Penelope Disick

In 2012, Disick and Kardashian Barker welcomed their second child, a daughter named Penelope.

In 2019, Disick gave his little girl, then 7, the pink bedroom of her dreams during an episode of his TV show “Flip It Like Disick.”

“Obviously, the most special girl in the world to me is my little daughter, Penelope,” he said during the episode. “And because she goes back-and-forth to her mom Kourtney’s house, because we co-parent, I want Penelope to be as comfortable at my house as she is at her mom’s. And I want her room at her dad’s to be perfect.”

On her daughter’s 10th birthday in 2022, Kardashian Barker shared the following tribute for Penelope on Instagram: “I feel so blessed to be the mommy of this little lady. She makes me so so proud every day and brings so much joy to my world.”

A few years earlier, she also shared a list of life lessons she likes to teach her daughter. “Love yourself first, chase your dreams, make mistakes (and learn from them), believe in God’s plan, you are more beautiful than you will ever know, and oh so smart, there is no one else like you in the entire world, you are loved. Things I tell my daughter,” she wrote at the time.

In 2022, Kardashian Barker said that she still co-slept with daughter nearly every night.

“She’s slept with me every day since she was born,” she said during an episode of Amanda Hirsch’s “Not Skinny But Not Fat” podcast. “And pretty much still still does, unless she has a friend sleep over.”

Reign Disick

Kardashian Barker and Disick’s third child arrived on a special day: His brother Mason’s birthday. Reign was born on Dec. 14, 2014. His parents revealed his full name — Reign Aston Disick — on Instagram a week later.

In 2019, Kardashian Barker responded to an online troll who wrote the following comment on one of her Instagram posts: “She really need (sic) to cut his hair.”

The mother of three replied with the following sassy comment: “She really need to not worry about kids that aren’t her own.”

The following year, Reign made a major mane move and got a buzz cut. His mom acknowledged the emotional moment with her caption and wrote, “I am not ok.”

Reign is quite the hair chameleon and got a mohawk in the summer of 2022. In March 2023, he debuted yet another hair change: platinum blond locks.

Travis Barker’s kids

Atiana De La Hoya

Before he welcomed his two biological children, Barker became a stepfather to Atiana De La Hoya, whose parents are Shanna Moakler, Barker’s ex-wife, and former pro boxer Oscar De La Hoya. Moakler and Barker split in 2006 after less than two years of marriage.

Barker continued to have a close relationship with his former stepdaughter.

The 24-year-old appeared in her family’s MTV series “Meet the Barkers” in 2005. She has also appeared on “The Kardashians” and an episode of “MasterChef Celebrity Showdown.”

In a 2021 interview with Page Six, De La Hoya spoke about her famous family and discussed her passions and a potential career path.

“Painting, drawing, digital art, sculpture — I’m still trying to find out what’s my thing,” she said at the time.

De La Hoya regularly posts social media tributes to Barker on his birthday and Father’s Day.

In 2019, she shared the following message with the musician on Instagram: “Thank you for always putting us first and being there for me no matter what.” In 2018, she also called Barker “the strongest person” she knows.

Landon Barker

Barker and Moakler welcomed their first biological child together in 2003: a son named Landon.

Barker’s love for music seems to have influenced his son, now 19, who frequently posts about his love for performing. He also seems to have a passion for fashion and collaborated with the brand Boohoo Man in 2022.

Landon graduated from high school in 2022 and his proud dad posted a sweet social media tribute to celebrate.

“So proud of you,” Barker wrote. “It has been a great pleasure and honor to raise you and I can’t wait to witness all the amazing things you’re going to do and become.”

A few months later, Landon celebrated his 19th birthday and Barker once again took to social media to mark the special occasion.

“You are the most amazing son I could ask for. So proud of the man you’ve become,” he wrote in part.

Kardashian Barker also paid tribute to the birthday boy on her own Instagram page, writing, in part, “I love you forever and always!”

Landon seems to have a tight bond with his stepmother and even teamed up with Kardashian Barker for an amusing TikTok video in February 2023.

The pair teamed up again in September on TikTok to debut Landon’s debut single, “Friends with Your Ex,” which his dad played drums on and produced.

In the cute video, Kardashian Barker wears a Betty Boop T-shirt as she stands next to her stepson. The pair ham it up as they sloppily mouth the song’s lyrics in a way that’s out of sync with its recording.

Toward the end of the video, the duo slap hands and bump fists before Kardashian Barker breaks out into laughter.

Alabama Barker

Barker and Moakler welcomed their second child together, a daughter named Alabama, in 2005.

When Barker and Kardashian Barker first got engaged, his daughter shared a photo on her Instagram stories and captioned the post, “So happy for you guys I love u both!”

In April 2023, Alabama wished her stepmother a happy birthday and shared a loving message.

“You’re the best step mom I could ask for, you are so caring and generous for others, you are such a family person and such a hard working mom,” she wrote on her Instagram story.

The 17-year-old continued her post, writing, “Even if you don’t feel good or had a hard day you always put your family first. You have such a beautiful aura I wouldn’t want another step mom.”

Alabama shares her father’s love for music and has shared clips of herself rapping. The father-daughter duo seems to have a tight bond; Barker wished his little girl a happy birthday on Instagram when she turned 18.

While sharing some photos of her over the years, he wrote, “Happy Birthday my beautiful daughter. I can’t believe my baby is 18 and all grown up. Being your Dad is the biggest joy in the world. May you be surrounded by love and all your favorite things today and forever! I’m so proud of you and I love you so much @alabamaluellabarker ❤️.”

The adoration appears to be mutual and Alabama gave her dad a sweet shoutout on Instagram earlier this year, writing, “I love you more than anything.”

In the comments, Kourtney Kardashian Barker shared a red heart emoji.