Selena Gomez: ‘Having children is my biggest dream in life’… she reveals the reason why it is difficult to have children

In an interview with Rolling Stone, Selena Gomez admitted that she has never given up the idea of ​​having children, even though her bipolar disorder medication or health situation affects her ability to get pregnant. Miss.

On November 3, in a conversation with Rolling Stone, Selena Gomez talked about visiting a friend who was trying to get pregnant. She recalls crying in the car after the trip because the two medications for her bipolar disorder made it difficult for her to get pregnant on her own.

“Having children is a big, huge dream in my life. I want to have children. I will do everything to have children,” Selena Gomez expressed.
Selena Gomez: Having children is the biggest dream of my life - 1Selena Gomez admitted her desire to become a mother but understood that her illness made it difficult for her to realize this wish (Photo: Rolling Stone)

It is known that using medication to treat bipolar disorder will affect the ability to conceive and cause birth defects in the fetus for pregnant women. In addition, patients experience behavioral and neurological problems when taking the drug long-term.

Selena Gomez was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 2018. She began hearing loud voices inside her, which grew louder and drowned out the sounds of the real world. Therefore, she went to a psychologist and went for several months of treatment in a mental health facility.

She had to stop working, take time to rest, and undergo treatment for a while. After this period, the female artist was prescribed a number of medications. Selena Gomez’s condition gradually improved, but she realized she had used too much medicine and it was extremely dangerous.

Selena Gomez: Having children is the biggest dream of my life - 2Selena Gomez in the documentary titled “Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me” (Photo: Apple TV+).

Recently, Selena Gomez agreed to make a documentary about her life called Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me and the film will air on November 4. The female singer confessed: “I don’t want the movie to become complicated or dramatic.”

Explaining the reason for making this documentary, Selena said: “I think it’s a good way for me to respond to my body, a wise way for me to express my moments of weakness, and also A way for me to heal my own hurts by expressing everything.”

“My advice to everyone is don’t be afraid. I’ve never been afraid to say, I need time for myself. I’ve never thought that was a bad thing. Share honestly. I I need to rest, you know? I believe that I am living true to myself,” the famous singer added.

In the film, the famous singer and actress talks about depression and the fear that illness brings. Selena Gomez had to announce the cancellation of her Revival tour in 2016 due to her health situation. That was the truly exhausted period of the famous singer when she had to face physical pain and fear of death. She recalled this time: “I was really scared.”

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Selena Gomez appears in Rolling Stone magazine, November 2022 issue (Photo: Rolling Stone).

“I went through treatment at four different centers. I entered my early twenties with the realization that it was a bad period of my life. At that time, I couldn’t control my feelings. emotional, unable to determine what is good and what is bad”, Selena Gomez recalled the time of disorientation.

For a long time, she couldn’t sleep. “I fell into depression and isolated myself from society. I couldn’t get out of bed. I also didn’t want to talk to anyone. My friends brought me food because they loved me, but no one understood that. , what am I going through? There are weeks, I just lie in bed, going up and down the stairs in the house makes me exhausted. I used to think, this world would be better without my existence. me,” she said.
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Selena Gomez admitted that she faced fear of illness and directionless crisis in her twenties (Photo: Rolling Stone).

It was her own strength and the support of those around her that helped the famous singer find balance, live on and shine. After spending time in a psychological treatment facility in 2018, Selena Gomez learned how to encourage herself to change.

She forced herself to transform, learn to accept and get used to this life, and especially to accept her illness. “The biggest difficulty for me was accepting that I was sick but I learned to cope with it,” she added.

“I just want to be a normal person,” Selena Gomez confided.

Although she entered the entertainment industry early and became a young star in Hollywood when she was less than 20 years old, Selena Gomez admitted: “I never found myself suitable for integrating into a group of famous girls. My only friend in the entertainment industry is Taylor Swift.

I always believe that I don’t belong in the entertainment industry. I got the position but today, I am very happy but is it really? Can these things make me happy? I just don’t like my old self because I didn’t understand who I was.”
Selena Gomez: Having children is the biggest dream of my life - 5Selena Gomez has now learned to accept life’s difficulties and live with illness (Photo: Rolling Stone).

Selena Gomez introduced, she is single and finds joy from work. In addition to music projects, she also participates in filming, conducts a culinary TV show called Selena + Chef , and develops a cosmetics brand with her own style.

During a conversation with Rolling Stone, Selena Gomez not only shared about her illness but also her fear of having to face tabloid news about her own life every day.

Selena Gomez mentioned the intimate image between her and Justin Bieber’s wife that was recently shared on social networks. The female singer affirmed that it is not a big problem for people to discuss and dissect. “The photo is nothing to worry about,” Selena emphasized.
Selena Gomez: Having children is the biggest dream of my life - 6Intimate photo between Selena Gomez and Hailey Bieber (Photo: Instagram).

It is known that on October 15, two beauties attended the gala of the Motion Picture Academy Museum in Los Angeles, USA. In the photo, the two stars are smiling, Selena puts her hand on Hailey’s leg, and in another photo, the Lose You to Love Me singer hugs the 26-year-old model’s waist.

As for Selena Gomez, she posted a video urging people to use kind words when discussing certain things. The actress hopes no further hostility will occur. “Everyone should live well with those around them. Everyone should only focus on caring about the real world,” Selena Gomez spoke up.

Last summer, Selena Gomez turned 30 and she organized a cozy and grand party for herself. “I thought I would get married at this age, so I organized a proper party for myself,” she said. The party filled with music and laughter took place in Malibu (USA) at the singer’s private home and was attended by colleagues in the entertainment industry.